Is a Post-Wedding Brunch Worth It For a DC Wedding?
When couples start planning their wedding weekend, one question I hear a lot is: “Should we host a post-wedding brunch?” The idea sounds lovely since it’s an extra chance to see your guests, reminisce about the night before, and say proper goodbyes. But here’s the thing: as a DC wedding planner who’s seen it all, I can tell you that a post-wedding brunch isn’t always worth the time or expense. The key is knowing your guests (and your wedding vibe) well enough to decide if it’s the right fit. Here’s my honest take:
When to Skip the Post-Wedding Brunch
If you know your wedding is going to be a big party and you’ve got plenty of guests who love to celebrate late into the night…do yourself (and them) a favor: skip the brunch.
After a late night of dancing, cocktails, and after-parties, most guests won’t be eager to wake up early and put on real clothes the next morning. In this case, I recommend putting your budget and energy toward a welcome party instead. It’s a great way to kick off the weekend, greet your guests in a relaxed setting, and save that morning-after time for sleeping in, packing up, and soaking in the “we’re married!” glow.
When a Post-Wedding Brunch Is Worth It
On the flip side, if you know your crowd is on the lower-key side or if you’re hosting a destination wedding where guests have traveled in and might want more time together, then a post-wedding brunch can be a great idea.
I especially love when couples choose a scenic or locally loved spot for their brunch. In DC, that might mean a restaurant with a view of the monuments, a cozy spot in Georgetown, or even a charming hotel restaurant near where most guests are staying. Not only does it give everyone a chance to recap the night before, but it’s also a fun way to show off more of the city to your out-of-town guests.
My Best Advice as a DC Wedding Planner
At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong answer. It’s about what fits your crowd (and your energy level). Think about this:
- Will your guests realistically want to get up early the next morning?
- Are you more excited about spending extra time with guests before or after the wedding?
- Does it feel like an added treat or just another logistical box to check?
If it feels like a hassle, skip it. If it feels fun, go for it! Either way, your wedding weekend will still feel special and complete.
Need Help Planning Your DC Wedding Weekend?
Whether it’s mapping out the perfect welcome party spot or coordinating your brunch plans, I love helping couples craft a wedding weekend that’s seamless and stress-free. If you’re planning a wedding in the DC area and want an experienced planner on your side, inquire here. I’d love to help you make it happen!
